Keeping Romance Alive in the Newlywed Stage
The majority of couples who have been married for any significant length of time think how easy marriage was when they were newlyweds compared to the challenges they are experiencing now. Our response to that kind of thinking?… how soon we forget! The newlywed stage can be both the easiest and the hardest of all!
The Newlywed Stage Can Be Easy:
there are fewer expectations, more freedom, more disposable time and income
romantic love comes naturally, life seems to revolves around you
there are fewer outside pressures clouding up the decision-making process
sex can be frequent with no distractions
as a couple you have lots of independence
you get to make the rules for your own life
life is filled with surprises as you start doing life together
The Newlywed Stage Can Be Hard:
you’re learning how to be vulnerable and open with each other
because sifting through expectations and responsibilities are difficult
since you’re learning about each other as married partners
you are making decisions that will have huge consequences later in life
effective communication takes a long time to master!
sex can be difficult: it’s not just about biology and passion—it’s about intimacy!
growing in intimacy takes time and life experiences: so real intimacy is still limited
Tips for Couples In the Newlywed Stage:
Work hard to be honest and vulnerable—learn to communicate clearly and openly
Developing intimacy is the key to success for newlyweds
Intentionally make your partner your priority: it’s easier now than later!
Although the Newlywed Stage is both very easy and very hard…the key is to enjoy this stage of your marriage!
This is part 1 of a 5-part series "Keeping Romance Alive in Every Season of Marriage"
